About This Reading
A woman once told me, it feels as though I am talking to a stranger overnight, and as we laid the cards we saw that person was fighting a battle within themselves that had nothing to do with her at all. Someone suddenly becoming distant and cold is an uncertainty that wounds the heart deeply, dear one; you ask yourself what did I do, what changed. The why are they acting cold reading exists exactly to bring perspective to this uncertainty.
As I lay the cards, I look at the true reason beneath that person's energy; a fear, a tiredness, or a matter you have not noticed. Whatever I see, I share it honestly, but with tenderness. One card might show me they are wrestling with something in their own life and trying to hide it from you, this is often the most common reason.
The most important thing these readings have taught me is that people usually put the most distance between themselves and those closest to them, because showing vulnerability feels most frightening in front of the one we love most.
Know this, dear one, someone's coldness is usually about their own inner world, not about you. I am here to clarify this truth for you, and protect your heart from unnecessary blame, and you do not have to carry this uncertainty alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does acting cold always mean interest has ended?
No, dear one, sometimes it comes from a fear, a tiredness, or an unprocessed feeling; I try to clarify this distinction for you.
Does this reading tell me what I should do?
I do not say it directly, sweet soul, but if I show the source of the energy, you will see your own path more clearly.
Could this coldness be my fault?
Usually not, dear one; coldness most often comes from that person's own inner world, and has nothing to do with your worth.